nearing 30




I think I get it now. They say life “really begins” at 30 is bc you stopped caring about what people think. You actually know who your true friends are; you truly understand what your values are; you know what you want; you know what you like; you know the people you want close to you. We’ve gone through the shit - school, careers, relationships, friends and family problems. We just get it now & if you don’t, somehow, we feel like that’s okay too. It’s like, we’re finally at a point where everything is okay and understand that this is exactly where we need to be at this moment. I feel free. / I’m not 30, close though and I’ve been thinking a lot about where I am in life. Why I don’t have children, a house, a car or even a “career job”. I find myself constantly needing to remind myself that it’s okay... do you get this too?